When someone has died - information for you

When someone close to you dies, you may be unsure what to do. We hope this leaflet will help you through the first few days. It explains:

  • what you need to do, and
  • how you may feel.

What do I need to do first?

  • You will need to tell close family and friends what has happened.
  • You will need to get the death certificate (sometimes called the ‘medical certificate of cause of death’ or ‘form 11’) from the doctor.
  • You must register the death – you will need the death certificate to do this. See the 'When and how do I register the death?' section for more information.
  • You should think about the funeral. If you wish, you can contact a funeral director before you register the death. See the 'How do I arrange the funeral?' section for more information.
  • You should look for the will of the person who has died. If you can’t find it, their solicitor may have a copy.

A priest, minister or religious leader may be able to help you or tell you where you can find help.

You can also get advice from a funeral director, your family doctor or a solicitor. Some organisations, for example Citizens Advice Scotland, may also be able to help. You will find contact details for some of these organisations in the ‘How can I find out more?’ section.

Page last edited: 23 June 2011